--- title: "Noticing the Change: Navigating Family Conversations This Holiday Season" description: "Discover how to navigate family conversations about caregiving this holiday season using the compassionate \"Three C’s\" framework." image: https://lhc.naifa.org/hubfs/AI-Generated%20Media/Images/The%20image%20depicts%20a%20cozy%20family%20gathering%20during%20the%20holiday%20season%20with%20a%20warmly%20decorated%20living%20room%20illuminated%20by%20soft%20ambient%20lighting%20A%20large%20f-1.png --- [**](https://lhc.naifa.org/lecpblog/noticing-the-change-navigating-family-conversations-this-holiday-season#tmpmodule_1610372601348145) - [Join](https://belong.naifa.org/join) - [Renew](https://community.naifa.org/login.aspx) - [Find an Advisor Pro](https://findapro.lifehappens.org/) **** [![belong.naifa.orghs-fshubfslogo_NAIFA_white](https://lhc.naifa.org/hs-fs/hubfs/social-suggested-images/belong.naifa.orghs-fshubfslogo_NAIFA_white.png?width=140&height=109&name=belong.naifa.orghs-fshubfslogo_NAIFA_white.png) ![logo_NAIFA_NEW](https://lhc.naifa.org/hs-fs/hubfs/logo_NAIFA_NEW.png?width=100&height=73&name=logo_NAIFA_NEW.png) ](https://lhc.naifa.org/) [**](https://lhc.naifa.org/lecpblog/noticing-the-change-navigating-family-conversations-this-holiday-season#tmpmodule_1610372601348145) - [Centers Home](https://centers.naifa.org/centers) - [LHC Home](https://lhc.naifa.org) - LHC Collectives - [Limited and Extended Care Planning Collective](https://lhc.naifa.org/lecp) - [Medicare Collective](https://lhc.naifa.org/medicare) - Advisory Councils - [Limited and Extended Care Planning Advisory Council](https://lhc.naifa.org/advisory-council) - [Medicare Advisory Council](https://lhc.naifa.org/mc-advisory-council) - Advocacy - [Limited and Extended Care Planning Legislative Working Group](https://lhc.naifa.org/legislative-working-group) - [Medicare Legislative Working Group](https://lhc.naifa.org/medicare-legislative-working-group) - [Advocacy Action Center](https://advocacy.naifa.org/news) - Events - [Inside the New NAIFA Medicare Collective Working Group webinar recording](https://vimeo.com/1211793994/19889c51bc?share=copy&fl=sv&fe=ci) - [Medicare Collective Impact Day 2026 Recording](https://belong.naifa.org/navigating-disruption-and-market-contraction-in-medicare-business-in-2026-and-beyond) - [Peak 65 Series: Impact Day for Lifetime Healthcare Recording](https://lhc.naifa.org/peak65) - [Limited and Extended Care Planning Archives](https://lhc.naifa.org/archives) - [2025 LECP Impact Day Recording](https://vimeo.com/1138688419/b50a406b29?share=copy&fl=sv&fe=ci) - [LHC Webinars](https://lhc.naifa.org/archives) - Blogs - [Limited and Extended Care Planning Blog](https://lhc.naifa.org/lecpblog) - [Medicare Blog](https://lhc.naifa.org/mcblog) ** ![LHC-header](https://lhc.naifa.org/hs-fs/hubfs/LHC-header.png?width=1920&height=960&name=LHC-header.png) # **Limited and Extended Care Planning Collective** The LECP Collective empowers professionals to network with solution and service providers to share best practices, directly access subject matter experts, research, training and resources; and provide thought leadership so we may continue to address the changing needs of the market. ###### 2 min read # [Noticing the Change: Navigating Family Conversations This Holiday Season](https://lhc.naifa.org/lecpblog/noticing-the-change-navigating-family-conversations-this-holiday-season) By [OneAmerica](https://lhc.naifa.org/lecpblog/author/oneamerica) on 12/23/25 11:56 AM ###### Topics: [Limited & Extended Care Planning Center](https://lhc.naifa.org/lecpblog/topic/limited-extended-care-planning-center) [Knowledge Centers](https://lhc.naifa.org/lecpblog/topic/knowledge-centers) [caregiving](https://lhc.naifa.org/lecpblog/topic/caregiving) ![](https://lhc.naifa.org/hubfs/AI-Generated%20Media/Images/The%20image%20depicts%20a%20cozy%20family%20gathering%20during%20the%20holiday%20season%20with%20a%20warmly%20decorated%20living%20room%20illuminated%20by%20soft%20ambient%20lighting%20A%20large%20f-1.png) The holidays are often the only time of year when extended families gather under one roof. While these moments are filled with tradition, they can also be a wake-up call. When you haven't seen a loved one in months, subtle shifts in their physical health or mental clarity suddenly become much more apparent.In a recent episode of the **Caregiving Conversations** podcast, host Amy Chinn, of OneAmerica Financial, sat down with licensed clinical social worker Jody Hirst to discuss how to handle these realizations with grace. **The "Three C’s" Framework** If you notice that a parent or relative "isn't quite themselves," it can be daunting to bring it up. Chinn and Hirst suggest using the **three C’s** to guide your approach: 1. **Compassion:** Enter the conversation with empathy rather than judgment. Acknowledge that aging and loss of independence are difficult transitions. 2. **Connection:** Prioritize the relationship first. Make sure your loved one feels seen and valued as a person, not just as a "problem" to be solved. 3. **Caregiving:** Recognize that caregiving often starts small. You might already be acting as a caregiver without realizing it—by managing a schedule, helping with a meal, or keeping track of medications. **Starting the Conversation** The goal isn't to fix everything over a single holiday dinner. Instead, focus on these three strategies for a productive dialogue: - **Choose the Right Moment:** Avoid heavy discussions in the middle of a noisy party. Find a quiet, private time where everyone feels relaxed. - **Listen with Curiosity:** Instead of telling your loved one what they need, ask open-ended questions about how they are feeling or if they’ve found certain tasks more difficult lately. - **Include Them in the Process:** Dignity is vital. 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